They may equally say, 'okay, we can be good friends while this may be true, what you really need immediately after a breakup is healing not the friendship of someone you love who no longer loves or care about you. If you agree to be friend with such person is all left for you and believe me or not you will be constantly hurting yourself.
I want you to also understand for a person to leave you for another, they must be very happy and loving with their new partner. Do not in your life be mistaken about this, forget what so ever nonsense things they tell you, it's all lies. What they really want is to know if you're still hurting or not, they want to know if you're still into them or not.
Also whatever they do for you thereafter is from a pity not love, the problem here is, you really don't need their pity because their pity will kindly stop you from healing. What you really need in those moments is to be faraway from them, cut-off all channel of communication. Do not let them in on your feelings or next move.
Don't allow them to pretend to love you or care about you because they don't. Stop opening up your feelings to them by saying things such as, baby, dear, sweetheart, my love, my king, my queen i still love you or i still have feelings for you, and all. You really need to show character. Shut them out totally from your life until after you have been really healed completely from such.
Now when you've really healed and independently happy, you may wish and decided to be a friend with such person again. It is very important to know that to do all the things i have highlighted will not be easy with you. But it's in your best long term interest. It is also very important for you to be strong and even to pretend to be happy after a break up never beg anyone to love you because you're so special and wonderfully made.
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