UNDERSTANDING YOUR WOMAN...
Lots of headache, frustration, unnecessary
quarrel would be avoided if men will learn to understand women. Living with a
woman is not difficult at all, ignorance, immaturity and unrealistic
expectations makes a man see his precious fiancée/ wife as a devil, demon, or
witch!
Here are things women do that make them
appear difficult but they are not, you just need to understand us.
1. WOMEN GET IRRITATED AND ANGRY BEFORE
THEIR MENSTRUATION and may even be screaming, yelling or throwing things at
you. You are not her problem, her cycle is. It is immaturity to bicker with
her, shout her down or call her names because her system is disorganized.
Immature men are huge disaster in relationships. Calm down. Respond to her
calmly. Hold her hand or put your arms around her. Hug her a lot. Women need
plenty of it during this period (physical touch is limited to the married).
2. SHE OFTEN GETS HORNY: Her cycle is also
responsible; sometimes emotional upsurge. If you are single and courting and
she's smothering you with hugs, kisses and affection, don't allow it. She's not
in her right frame of mind. Help her by getting out of that tempting
environment. If you are married, respond to her. She needs passionate love
making at this period to calm her down. Some men don't get it when their wives
use her body to ask for sex. If she's pulling you close, running her hands all
over you, and giving unwanted pecks, you should get the message. You don't need
to wait for her to ask. Women rarely ask for sex. It takes some boldness to do
that.
3. SHE GETS FRUSTRATED AND ANGRY when you
keep hurting her over and over again with your bad habit you refuse to change.
5. SHE EXPERIENCES MOOD SWINGS. She may be
laughing in the morning, cry in the afternoon and be very nice at night. Women
being emotional beings often experience mood swings. Because you are not as
emotional as her, this may annoy you. Don't be, it is temporal, it will go with
time.
6. WOMEN ARE MOVED BY WHAT THEY HEAR:
That's why the naive ones fall for play boys. If you are courting, do not say
anything romantic, it may turn her on. "I love you " is okay. "I
admire you a lot" is decent. Anything like "your smile is gonna kill
me completely" is off it. "You've got killer curves" is extreme,
"your hips are so sexy" has killed her completely. If you genuinely
love her, don't say things that will turn her on.
In marriage, you must deliberately say
romantic words that turns her on for sex.
Just 2 or 3 sentences, her night is made!
7. WOMEN LIKE TO BE TAKEN CARE OF: Even if
she's a billionaire, she still wants you to spend on her. It's a sign you
really love and do care for her. She's not being greedy or lazy, she's just
expressing her nature. We are created to receive, take and look up to our men.
We feel loved that way.
8. WOMEN WANT MEN TO ASSIST WITH CHORES: It
makes you look so adorable. When you are involved in things that matters to
her, she will cherish you for life!
9 WOMEN WEAR WHAT IS NEEDED NOT WHAT THEY
HAVE: A woman may complain she has no shoe to wear to an occasion, yet has 10
pairs on her shoe rack. What she means is, she does not have the perfect match
for her clothe. While you may wear one pair of shoe to all occasion, women
simply can't. She's not being extra vacant. We are simply made that way.
10: WOMEN TAKE TIME TO DRESS and may be
late for an occasion when you plan to go out together. Give her extra time to
dress. If you are to leave home by 10am, prepare early. Give her one hour
earlier (9am) to prepare while you do your preparing at your normal time. While
a man may finish dressing up within 15 minutes, a woman may need 40 minutes for
the foundation, make up, adjust her clothe, tie the headgear, find the shoes
and jewelries that match her clothe, etc. Screaming at her to hurry up may
spoil her day, just handle her with wisdom. Give her extra time to prepare.
11. WOMEN ARE CONCERNED ABOUT THEIR BODY so
please, don't use her physical weakness to abuse her. Women fall in love over and over again with men who appreciate
their beauty.
12. WOMEN HATE LIES AND DECIET :you lose
your respect and worth in her eyes when you lie, cheat and deceive her a lot.
13. WOMEN ARE INTUITIVE and therefore can
pick from their spirit when something goes wrong or about to go wrong. She may
not have a logical way to say it. She just knows by intuition that what you are
about doing may end up a big disaster or huge success. She may not always be correct but she most
times is correct and accurate. Men who want to go far in life must listen to
their wives before embarking on certain journey, investments or relationships.
Pray well and seek God's face before you proceed. Some men have experienced
huge financial loss, untimely death and avoidable fatal accidents because they
refused to listen to their wives' advice, plea and warning.
It takes knowledge to live with a woman.
It takes only matured man to live with a
woman peacefully.
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