In the process of self-reflection, you just realize there are many things about your partner that you initially overlook because you were overwhelmed by his love, but now that the honeymoon period of your relationship has ended, you can now see things differently from another perspective. And now you realize you have been in a relationship with the wrong person.
It's now dawn on you that your family and friends who had warned you about the relationship was right all along. First he doesn't believe in your dreams and vision, and you have a deferent view about life than he does. And the question would be, How did you end up with him in the first place?
When the foundation of a relationship is built on emotions, such feelings will not last because once the feelings is know longer there, the connection in the relationship will cease. But the good news is that you can always detect if a guy have good intentions for you. Here are few points to note if he is the right man for you.
1. He regards you with much respect. If your relationship must lead to marriage, he should regard you in all his dealings and show you respect especially among friends and family members.
2. He is fully committed with you. Must be committed to the relationship, calling and giving attention
3. The both of you have similar goals. Should be able to define the relationship, share dreams and goals together and work on them.
4. His love is unconditional. Should be trustworthy and mean every words of his.
5. He is valued by your family and friends. Successful relationship starts from the home, must create value for you and respect your feelings.
6. He always pays attention to your needs. Must be supportive, not only financially, by encouragement and good motivations.
7. Having him around you is interesting. You must feel safe once he's around and must be appreciative.
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